Roger Ebert ‘s life was discussed on the Charlie Rose show on April 8, 2013, by a panel who were articulate, eloquent and inspiring.
I grew up watching the Siskel and Ebert film reviews on TV and enjoyed their intellectually stimulating discussions about films. In retrospect, I think that they modeled for me a level of sophisticated conversation where two very bright people could disagree and argue with respect and kindness.
That level of intellectual conversation was a training ground for me, of sorts. As a therapist, I learned to teach communication skills and conflict resolution skills, noting the difference between “content” and “process”. Yes, the “content” of the discourse between Siskel and Ebert was lively, smart and intellectually stimulating. The “process” of their interaction was a role model where each person maintained their passionate beliefs about a film, and yet, always in a manner that acknowledged the other person’s validity and right to their point of view.
I learned that two people can have very divergent opinions, and both can be right. When it comes to a film review, many points of view have validity. These two men modeled how to have a healthy relationship….a good role model of conflict management for marriages, friendships and the business world.
When I watched the Charlie Rose tribute to Rober Ebert, other aspects were discussed, such as his generosity to write letters to his viewers, responding to their questions. He had a strong Twitter following after he lost his voice to the ravages of cancer and had written numerous letters to TV viewers, who shared these letters on Twitter. The Charlie Rose Show paid tribute to his generosity and kindness, as he took time out of his busy week to personally answer letters. The impact on his viewers was profound to them, personally and professionally.
When he lost his voice to cancer, he began to use Twitter to continue to critique films, and expanded his analysis to life and his illness. He was such an entertaining writer, that his Twitter followers looked forward to his comments about life.
What an amazing legacy of intellect, kindness and exceptional work ethic. I will certainly miss him, and recommend that The Charlie Rose Show’s tribute to Roger Ebert is a must see.